Melissa Febos is an American writer and professor known for her works in memoir, essays, and literary nonfiction. Born on September 28, 1980, in Boston, Massachusetts, she garnered recognition with her candid and powerful writing that often explores themes such as identity, feminism, sexuality, and the complexities of human relationships. Febos' notable works include "Whip Smart" (2010), a memoir about her experiences working as a professional dominatrix while attending college, and "Abandon Me" (2017), a collection of essays that delve into love, abandonment, and the search for connection. She has contributed to various literary journals and anthologies, and her essays have won awards and accolades, reflecting her skill in the craft of creative nonfiction. Febos is also an acclaimed educator, teaching writing at various universities and workshops.