Run away with me.' When spoken by a much younger woman, few men will resist those words. When Bob Lutz abruptly quits his executive post to head an Internet start-up, he begins a harrowing spin into neurosis: he becomes obsessed with his young employee, the nubile Valerie Quinn. His marriage crumbles. Why would a fifty-year-old married man become involved with a twenty-three-year-old? His attitude: why not? 'Run away with me,' she said. Once was all it took.